how to write seasonally unaffected greeting cards

The key is to write more than your name.

dsc08085-copyIn other words, resist the urge to buy a seasonally affected message under which you leave your signature.

Write words. Thoughts even.

Write in ink. (or pencil or crayon or anything along those lines)

Sit down with your address book, by which I mean an actual book made of paper and cardboard that lives in a basket on your kitchen counter and which is dog-eared and generally beaten up.

Flip through its pages and see names of people you see and talk to all the time and some you haven’t spoken with all year.

dsc08080-copy dsc08078-copyThere may be a reason you haven’t talked all year, but not to worry… there’s something very possible  about keeping in touch via annual conversations in ink. And in many cases, preferable.

So open your battered address book and begin.

dsc08074-copy dsc08070-copy dsc08069-copyRemember the woman you haven’t seen since the 80’s that you used to work with and once took an auto body repair class together. You had a rusty Dodge Dart. She made amazing rice. You haven’t seen each other or heard each others voices in more than thirty years. You don’t even email. The only time you’re in touch is at this time of year. By card. You’re up to date on events, if not inner psyches. (Not necessary to be up to date on every psyche.)

And your godmother who you never call often enough and friends across the country, and those who live an hour away but you only meet once a year.

You will find a man who turns 99 this month and still has all his marbles, and a woman who is 83 and has the smile of a teenager.

And the address of an old friend no longer around. You keep her name in the book anyway and every year you think what you might have written to her.

dsc08065-copySend notes also to the names you see and talk to all the time because the things you say in handwriting are different than what you say in keyboard or words out loud.

dsc08058-copyYou can buy cards or make them. From photos. Or potato stencils.

(In the past you may have chosen to drink rum and eggnog as you wrote but have since discovered you’re lactose intolerant and the rum makes your handwriting illegible by the time you get to the L’s in your address book.)

Options: Light a fire. Get cosy. Make tea or open a bottle of wine (see above). If it snows so much the better.

dsc08075-copyEmbrace the remembering that goes with each name and notice the different things you write to each person, the reminder that each relationship is its own thing.


See the exhibit of textile sculptures by Judith Scott (who is part magpie and part genius.)

Go with a friend.

(Stop here for lunch. Have the kale and quinoa salad. Say hey to Debbie.)

Pay a visit to the French store and say yes to that bottle of almond milk hand cream that will not stop flirting with you.

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Use pictures of the exhibit for this year’s cards. (If gallery approves said use.)

And even though you just saw the friend, send them a card too.

Especially them.


9 thoughts on “how to write seasonally unaffected greeting cards

  1. I wholeheartedly approve of this message! Facebook has ruined this once-loved ritual for me. It makes me feel like there is no point to it anymore – almost everyone I know is on facebook. But your post is inspiring.

    1. Oh no! Not ruined forever I hope. Because yes, Virginia, there IS a point. Everyone you send to will be tickled pink. Facebook is merely ‘another’ way of saying hello. But nothing says it quite like ink. (ahem… ink; I just got that) (;

  2. All these colours and textures and busy knots! Easy to read metaphors into them but I love their in-itselfness. And I love imagining you–maybe sitting outside in bare feet and Birks? or inside with a cat or two nearby–sending them off as greetings.

    1. Those knots are worthy of study. She tied more than she wrapped I think. Metaphors, yes, but I agree that justwhatitis is enough. As for sitting outside… I hear winter is about to find us. Birks don’t get scared off that easily but I’ll be writing by the fire… with cats nearby!

  3. I love this so much. Started my holiday cards last night, although I have replaced my address book with an Excel spreadsheet, which meant my husband was in charge of addressing envelopes via printed labels, which means that my husband WHO HAS TERRIBLE HANDWRITING has finally found a way to help me with the Holiday card-writing labour. And I appreciate that.

    1. Addressing envelopes is my not favourite part. You’ve done some excellent delegating! And, yeah, it’s such fun. I have no idea why people stopped using pens and stamps. Happy carding to you!

  4. This exactly describes my thoughts on writing cards, though I’ve been more behind than usual this year and I probably owe you a couple of cards. I haven’t forgotten though! There is indeed something about sitting down and writing to someone with pen and ink (or whatever), and also receiving cards and letters from people – more of a treat than ever now that it is rarer. But it was always special.

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